What are the differences between love and lust?
In this article we are going to be pointing out the difference between love and lost
we shall see what is not love and what is not lust
1. what is love
love is a strong emotional feeling you have for something or someone to my own little understanding.
2. what is lust
lust is the strong feeling of sextual attraction for someone (Expecially the opposite sex).
Concept of love and lust
Now, there is this concept we need to kill in Nigeria Especially in our Sunday school in children’s and teens church, because the young must surely grow. the concept of love and lust,
you will agree with me that in your children church when the topic of love comes in,
our Sunday school teacher will tell us that,
“at this age u cannot love any boy /girl, any thing u feel is just lust” well I’m not against that at all!!
I’m just worried and I have a question to ask
my question is at what age can I be sure that what I’m feeling inside is not lust?, is it at 17? 18? 19? 20?
you see another problem right?
I’m even scared to tell a girl I love you now because years back they told me it’s not love that its lust
OK what If I exceed those age.. if I feel anything like that can i then call it love?….. maybe grown up people doesn’t lust after people? just maybe!
can we then say that the lust of the flesh is for the teenagers alone? no
so I haven’t used any bible scriptures to backed this theory up like usual ……[ I speak but out of my own understanding] …… now…. what if as a teenager I feel the Same thing brother John that is about to marry sister Grace feels about sister Grace, is it love or I’m not matured . mummy’s and daddies pls let’s look into this matter like VAR,
gone are the days of hand of God goals
I feel something for a girl for more than 2years now and I have never thought of sex! are we going to till call that lust?
what is now the definition of love? or does love has a chrome extension or a wordpress hook called lust? I think that
lust is mis defined as love
but does this virus affects only teenagers? if yes then does growing up fixed the bug? I’m very confused right now….. the answer is no! (lust is not for kids only)
that’s not what our teachers are trying to tell us. they actually tells us the right thing but we look at it the wrong way.
Teachers we need to tell our teenagers that lust is looking over a girl lust fully, what I’m I even saying self (that’s a joke primary school way of defining things ) no,
we need to tell them that lust is when u have feel something for a girl/boy and its leading you to having sex and doing similar act with her sometimes we even do it in our head and even demonstrate it when alone with friends ( remember i speak but, on my own understanding)
now you all agree with me that lust is a virus that the devil brought to our operating system (the human mind)
THEN what is love? ( when the film hot we go con dey hear gin gin)
all my life I have always believed that I have never loved any girl even with those strong feelings and sleepless nights because of the love and lust theories in Sunday school classes.
the love I thought I had is sounding stupid to me now self ( if I have ever told you I love you before don’t mind me, I like to play a lot, I don’t even love my self (I will write about why latter )
I come to church everyday and sing songs like
l love you forever
I love forever Lord!”
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or songs like
“I cannot do without you”
but this love I say I have for God is not feeling the same way like the love I have for that babe in my department o ( u sure say na the same thing so? that babe is so beautiful I can’t even stop thinking about her and I chat her up at night and I tell her the things I use to tell God in Sunday service
yet the love feels more greater and stronger that what I say I have for God
should I draw a conclusion that they are different type of love?(yes they are) if they are different why do we now say it the same thing to both side and express it differently?……. to be continued
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